If you find yourself Googling ex girlfriend quotes than you are not mentally in the right state (if you ever want her back). Posting sad quotes that are directed at your ex girlfriend puts you in a submissive state. This is not attractive and is not going to guilt her back into your arms.
Posting those ex girlfriend quotes on your Facebook , away messages, or any other social media network is going to hurt your chances of getting her back. That is an act out of desperation and shows that you truly need your ex girlfriend and are upset not being with her.
Even if you are devastated by not being with your girl, you can not let her know that because it will be used against you. Posting those quotes will indirectly push her further away and give her a sense of satisfaction and control.
When I went through my devastating breakup my ex girlfriend would put some of those quotes up and I would immediately look for retaliation quotes to top hers. Little did I know that I would have been better off writing that I was out with friends on my away messages.
You need to stay in a positive mental state. Googling ex girlfriend quotes just means you are in a negative, sad, and submissive state. It is human nature to want what you can’t have so if you want your girl back don’t let her know she can have you back whenever she wants.
Make her think you’re doing fine without her and you are more than capable of moving on. If she looks for those sad quotes and they aren’t there and she sees somewhat positive and happy ones her mind is going to backfire.
She is going to be curious to why you are happy while not being with her. She will start asking herself questions like what is making you so happy, could it be another girl, have you really moved on, etc.
This will naturally draw her back in. She will want to text you or call you to see what you have been up too. It is only natural for that to happen. Imagine if you just broke up with her and her away message says “out for the night:).” How would that make you feel?
Be smart about what you do. If she broke up with you than you need to regain the control in your relationship and almost mind trick her back into your arms. Believe me it is possible because I have done it.
Have you ever noticed that when you try so hard to please your girl a lot of times its great and all but sometimes its like nothing can ever please her? No matter what you do it isn’t good enough and you try so hard.
However, there have been times where you haven’t really paid much attention to her and yet she’s all over you and the ball is in your court. You make the moves when your in this position. You can do something so small and she’ll act like you just purposed to her. It all goes back to her wanting what she can’t have. You didn’t give her much attention so she naturally becomes starving for it.
Now don’t get mixed up and just start ignoring your girl completely because that won’t work either. Once you have gained the control you need to throw in some of those cute kind acts to give her a little bit of satisfaction but not too much.
